Take Responsibility

When you understand that you are source not subject of your world, you can change it.  To successfully utilize the law of attraction you need to become conscious of what’s going on inside. You need to be aware of the thoughts, feelings, beliefs and attitudes that are creating the boundaries of your experience.

The law of attraction is an absolute. It does not discriminate, it simply is. This means it can work both for and against you. To attract what you want into your life you need to align your heart and mind to the outcome of your desire, the juicy positive thoughts and feelings, which palpably resonate and act as a glowing magnet to those very goals.

Use Imagination

How you feel about what you imagine will determine whether you will successfully attract it or not.  If you visualize your dream car, for example, yet are filled with feelings of frustration for not having it, doubt about ever manifesting it, guilt about deserving it, or jealousy at your friend for already having it, you will activate the law of attraction against you rather than for you and re-enforce the absence rather than existence of that car in your life. Your feelings are powerful indicators of what’s going on internally and point to beliefs, thoughts and attitudes that may need changing or aligning. Your feelings are paramount to successful manifestation.

Desire

When you get in touch with your desire, your imagination, along with all the positive thoughts and feelings about your goal, are ignited. To get in touch with the desire you have for your goal, simply ask yourself ‘Why do I want this?’ As you answer the whys, your passions and emotions stir and your imagination flows. Asking why also assists you in getting clear on the intent behind your goal and how true your goal is for you, as well a what the higher purposes and desired outcomes of your goal are (what you wish your goal to give you). It can be a revealing exercise.

Sometimes what we think we want can be a product of the consensus, of what others want for us, of what we think we ‘should’ have, of what our ego thinks will gratify us, or of our rationalizations rather than our heart’s desires.  If asking why you want your goal doesn’t get you juiced up, you may want to question how much you truly want it.

Future Causation

Essentially, time and space are an illusion. The future you desire already exists. Instead of trying to imagine what that future will be like from your present, travel to that bright future and experience it for real.  You can choose the future you wish to influence you and allow it to change you right now.

Practice stepping into your future on a regular basis. What kind of decisions would that future you make, how would they think, feel and be? What solutions would they find, successes create, challenges overcome and so forth? Hold a 'future perspective' when making decisions, setting goals or dealing with challenges.  Connect to that future and allow it to have voice in your world today in the thoughts, feelings and actions you choose.

Create the Space

What person, fear, resentment, belief, past hurt, anger or loss are you holding on to that could be let go of?

If you are wanting a new relationship for example, is there an ex-partner you haven’t quite let go of yet, or a quality about them or that relationship that in your fondness you have not yet relinquished? Whatever you’re holding onto from your past is what you are blocking from showing up in your present reality.  When you let go, you allow the very qualities you were holding on to reappear in your life again yet at an even higher level. With letting go, you can only win!

Create Congruency

To successfully attract your desires it is essential that your beliefs are congruent with them. If, for example, you want a happy loving relationship but hold negative beliefs about the opposite sex, love, or yourself for that matter, you’ll create counter results. Beliefs are formed during childhood and at other key times in your life. They can be shaped and influenced by family, peers, society and media, and a great many you may not even be conscious of.

Cultivate a sense of deserving

Another key ingredient to attracting and allowing the realities you seek is a sense of deserving. If you don’t feel that you deserve the reality you desire, you will block its manifestation or sabotage it when it arrives. Your sense of deserving reflects your level of self-value and is affected by guilt, shame, self-judgment and negative self-concepts.

Be Available

Making yourself available for opportunity can mean stepping outside your current comfort zone, communicating and sharing yourself, enquiring, asking for help, sowing seeds, getting out there, looking for resources and being proactive towards your goals. The more rods you place into the stream of life, the more fish can come your way.

Being open to and acting on the opportunities that arise is to essentially ‘receive’ the universe’s resources that will bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be. This is an important step in maximizing the law of attraction.

Honoring Your Emotions

What we resist persists. It is what we acknowledge and accept that we can naturally let go of and release. What we deny does not go away, and will inevitably leak into our world in the circumstances, people and events we attract. Repressed emotions distort our energy, and cloud the filters with which we create our world. Feeling your feelings is a fast way to release them. This doesn’t mean indulging in them or giving them undue attention if they do not serve you, more it enables them to move through you and be expressed. It takes more energy to stuff emotions down than to experience them. Acknowledging, accepting and feeling an emotion will enable its release. Your feelings are powerful indicators of what’s going on inside.

Honor them and listen to what they are telling you about yourself, your life and your world and any corresponding thoughts and beliefs you may hold.

Desire versus Need

There is a difference between desire, and need or desperation. Need and desperation are synonymous with feelings of lack and the absence of what you want hence will repel your desired goal and perpetuate you’re not having it.   Desire, however, is a positive generating emotion. It fuels your imagination, expectation and all the positive feelings associated with your goal so integral to successfully attracting it. Be passionate about your outcome yet remain light-hearted and unattached to ensure you don’t become needy or dependent on it.

Trust

One way to dissipate and release feelings of neediness, urgency or desperation is to trust. Trust in the positive outcome in your goal. Trust in the love and grace of the universe and the power of your heart and mind. Trust that you are loved more than you know and that the universe loves you more than you love yourself.

It is holding on, neediness and attachment that ironically push the very things you want away. You may notice this dynamic in relationships. It’s the same with all things. If you let go of something and it is for your best it will be there. Relax, trust, loosen your grip, relinquish control and release your dreams and visions into the world. Trust, believe, open to receive and expect their materialization in your world.

Focus

What you give attention to grows. The energy of your thoughts, feelings, imagination and desire feeds your experience. Anytime you are focused on what you don’t want you are giving it attention and magnifying it in your life.

Words like ‘don’t’, ‘not’ and ‘no’ may indicate where you are focusing on what you don’t want rather than what you do. Feed your dreams not your fears. Feed your successes not your failures. Your thoughts, feelings and the focus with which you apply them are directional. They are heading somewhere. If they feel good, so will be your destination.

Hindering How’s

When pondering your preferences, visioning your dreams, or accessing our heart’s desires, don’t get trapped into wondering how you’re going to get there.

Persistence

Engaging the law of attraction is about harnessing the power of your mind and emotions. It involves creating a new approach to your life and the way you think and feel for the attainment of your desires. This may take practice.

Your True Self

Perhaps the fastest way to raise your vibration and maximize the law of attraction in your favor is to connect to the truth of who you are. You are a spiritual being born of love. When you connect to your true self beyond your personality, you discover the magnificence of your being and you’re inherent beauty, innocence and worth.

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Nancy & Paul