When you give thought to something, you begin the attraction process of the essence of that subject into your own life experience. Once you have activated a Thought Vibration within yourself by giving your attention to the subject, the progression of expansion occurs.--- Abraham

From Valashi:  2011 will certainly bring change; that is guaranteed. Everything in the Earth classroom is temporal in nature and subject to constant change. There are a few things that never change, however, such as the law that you are what you love and you love whatever you give your attention to. That is forever a constant, unchanging reality. The truth that you do not have Divine Love, you are Divine Love is never going to falter or change with the seasons either. It is not too late, no matter what your life circumstances are, to shift your life's direction by examining and changing what you give your attention to. That is why you are here. And that is how you get down to fulfilling your Spiritual business in this life.

By Default, I Could Have Attracted Unwanted Relationships... Many of the relationships or experiences you have attracted you would not have deliberately attracted if you had been doing it on purpose, but much of your attraction is not done by deliberate intent, but rather by default. . . . It is important to understand that you get what you think about, whether you want it or not. And chronic thoughts about unwanted things invite, or ask for, matching experiences. The Law of Attraction makes it so.  --- Abraham